October 25, 2024

Published October 24, 2024
My dear Kirkland Catholics,

I will not often rehash homilies in my newsletter, but my homily a few weeks back had a lot of specific examples, and was asked more than once for a copy of the examples.  So here we go…

I based my homily on Matthew 10:10-16: “Whoever does not accept the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it.”  My point was that entering the Kingdom of God actually happens when we are baptized; and we are supposed to more and more enter into the Kingdom throughout life, as we become more childlike.

I compared a “childlike” approach to life to “sophisticated adult” approach, and I titled my homily “A five-year-old is not going to give you ‘The Silent Treatment’.”  Here are some examples I used:
Childlike Adult (but childish)
Do not “put on airs” Pretend, front, masquerade
Unabashedly affectionate Aloof, cool
Simple & Straightforward Manipulative & scheming
Life is uncomplicated Life if convoluted & tangled priorities
Forget wrongs quickly Nursing resentment, giving “The Silent Treatment”
Chaste Lustful and objectifying others
Live in the moment Living in past, or fearful & anxious about future
Vulnerable & Transparent Fail to deal w/ trauma (fail to go to therapy when needed), suppress pain & emotion
Curious Apathetic & disinterested
Ask for help Vainly self-sufficient
Willing to believe Cynical & incredulous
Know they need friends Isolate
Humble: I need my parents (God) for everything, and I am secure in their (the Lord’s) love. Prideful: I am insecure in the Lord’s love, and so I must rely on my own counsel and strength for my happiness and security.
Being childlike begins with believing one is a beloved child of God, and internalizing that we need God for everything.  It develops as we adopt a “we” mindset rather than a “me” mindset: instead of thinking “what am I going to do about X?” it is asking “Lord, what are we going to do about X.”  It is also nurtured by striving to live in the moment (rather than in the past or future) because it is only in the present that I experience the love and grace of God.  A final point of development occurs by realizing when we act like a “sophisticated adult,” then repenting and asking God for more humility.

With love in Christ,

Fr. Brad

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